Sharing with Friends

Ask a friend to join you and let the fun begin. Friends can help you to stay connected. If you only practice alone you may lose the ability to share your feelings with a future lover. Once you've mastered the basic skills of Tantra, meet with a friend or lover and share what you have found. You will reach new heights of ecstasy when you join your energies.

It is a very exciting and intimate experience when you involve a friend in your tantra practice. Please don't keep it hidden away as a private secret, share it with good friends.

Mutual Masturbation

Mutual masturbation can be an incredibly exciting sexual encounter between two, or even more, people. Sharing this with your partner can be a great way for your partner to learn how you like to be touched and stimulated. It can also be very visually exciting, to watch your partner receiving the ultimate pleasure. Be honest with your excitement, if what you're doing feels really good, let him know. Genuine excitement can be the ultimate turn on.

Learn what feels good

This is great fun and you might actually learn a thing or two in the bargain as well as. Although many people think of masturbation as a solo activity, adding a friend into the mix can lead to some great fun and games and give the whole masturbation experience a new dimension. The keywords here are communication and openness.

Mutual masturbation is an ideal way to teach your partner how best to please you. You can even add to this scenario by dressing for the part and role-playing if you feel so inclined. Your partner is your teacher and your mission is to educate him to best pleasure you using only your hands. You begin by showing him what type of stroke works for you or perhaps a simple biology lesson where you point to the more pleasurable parts of your body and take it from there.

Warm up

Both partners masturbate themselves at the same time in each other's presence. A good way to enjoy this is for you both to lay on your backside facing each other, so your genitals are up close and touching. Your legs go wherever. Prop yourselves up comfortably on pillows, so you can watch each other masturbate. Your hands will be bumping into each other which adds another erotic dimension.

As the excitement builds and inhibitions fade, coach each other and talk it up. This gets so erotic that you can actually "talk off" your partner. It's also a good time to reveal your secret fantasies, flick tongues and have fun.

You may want to reach orgasm separately, so you can watch each other experience pure ecstasy. It doesn't really matter who orgasms when or how often, but avoid ejaculation if you want to move on to the next step.